Pegging Toys

Pegging is the practice of a woman penetrating a male partner anally using a strap-on harness and dildo. It's increasingly popular among couples exploring new dimensions of pleasure and intimacy.

The appeal is straightforward. The male rectum contains the prostate gland — often called the male G-spot — which responds to stimulation in a way many men find intensely pleasurable. Pegging provides direct prostate stimulation in a partnered context.

It's also popular in same-sex and non-binary relationships as a versatile, role-flexible form of penetrative play.

Pegging takes a few key pieces. You'll find all of them here:

Strap-On Harnesses

The wearable component that holds the dildo in place. Quality harnesses are adjustable, comfortable for extended wear, and compatible with a range of dildo sizes. Choose from brief-style, jock-style and adjustable strap designs in leather, faux leather and fabric. A well-fitting harness makes the whole experience significantly more enjoyable for the wearer.

Harness-Compatible Dildos

The insertable component. Look for a flared or flat base that sits securely in a harness O-ring. We stock slimmer, smoother options for first-timers through to larger, more realistic dildos for experienced users. Our strap-on dildos range covers even more standalone options.

Strapless & Wearable Strap-Ons

Harness-free designs where the wearer inserts one end internally and uses their own body to control the other. A more intimate, connected experience — typically recommended for those already comfortable with strap-on play. Our strapless strap-ons page covers this style in detail.

Pegging Kits

Prefer to buy it all at once? A pegging kit pairs a harness and dildo — and sometimes lube — in one package that's designed to work together out of the box. It's the simplest way to get started.

Anal Training & Prep

Anal training kits let the receiving partner build up gradually with graduated plug sizes, while douches make preparation simple and help you both feel relaxed and confident.

Anal Lube

Anal play always requires lube — more than you think you need. A thick, water-based formula is the standard recommendation. Our anal lubricants page covers the full range of dedicated options.

Choose a Kit If…

You're new to pegging and want everything in one go. Kits remove the guesswork — the harness and dildo are guaranteed to fit each other, and they usually cost less than buying the same pieces separately.

Build Your Own If…

You want a specific harness style, a particular dildo size or shape, or you already own one piece and want to upgrade the other. Buying separately lets you choose a premium harness for the wearer's comfort and swap dildos as your confidence grows.

Start Small, Size Up Later

Many couples start with a kit or a slim dildo, then add a second, larger dildo to the same harness once they're comfortable. A good harness lasts — the dildo is the part most people change.

Start with size

For first-timers, smaller is always better. The anal canal requires gradual preparation, and starting with a comfortable size makes the experience enjoyable rather than uncomfortable. You can always size up later.

Harness fit

Look for a fully adjustable harness with multiple sizing points. A harness that fits well stays in place during use and gives the wearer confidence and control. Most quality harnesses fit a wide range of body types, and plus-size options are available.

Dildo base

If you're buying a harness and dildo separately, check the dildo has a flared base and that it suits the harness O-ring size. Many harnesses come with interchangeable O-rings to fit different dildos.

Dildo material

Body-safe silicone is the standard for anal toys. It's non-porous, easy to sterilise, and has a comfortable, smooth feel. Avoid toys that don't specify the material clearly.

Vibration

Some setups include a vibrating dildo for the receiving partner. Others include a vibrating harness pad that stimulates the wearer simultaneously. Both add another dimension to the experience.

Lube compatibility

Always use water-based lube with silicone toys. Silicone-based lubricants can degrade silicone toys over time. If your kit includes lube, check the formula before use.

For those approaching pegging for the first time, beginner's guide to pegging — what to expect, how to prepare, and how to communicate with your partner makes the first experience significantly more comfortable and enjoyable for both people involved.

Exploring strap-on and anal play? These related categories are useful:

• Strap-Ons & Harnesses
• Strapless Strap-Ons
• Strap-On Dildos
• Anal Training Kits
• Anal Lubricants
• Anal Sex Toys

Is pegging only for heterosexual couples?

Not at all. Pegging is enjoyed across all relationship types and gender identities. The term is most commonly used in the context of a female-presenting partner penetrating a male-presenting partner, but strap-on play is popular across same-sex, non-binary, and gender-diverse relationships.

Does pegging hurt?

It shouldn't, provided you prepare properly. Use plenty of thick anal lubricant, start with a smaller dildo, go slowly, and communicate continuously with your partner. Discomfort is a signal to slow down — pain is a signal the body isn't ready yet. Rushing is the most common mistake beginners make.

Do I need a kit, or can I buy pieces separately?

Either works. Kits are the easiest starting point because every piece is designed to fit together. Buying a harness and dildo separately gives you more choice — just check the dildo has a flared base that suits the harness O-ring.

Can I use any dildo with a pegging harness?

Most O-ring harnesses are compatible with dildos that have a flared base. Check the O-ring diameter against the base of any dildo you plan to use. Dildos without a flared base, or with a very narrow one, won't sit securely.

How do I clean pegging toys?

Clean all toys before and after every use. Silicone dildos can be washed with warm water and antibacterial toy cleaner, or boiled for full sterilisation if they have no electronic components. Harnesses should be hand-washed and air-dried.

What's the best position for pegging beginners?

Doggy style or the receiving partner lying flat on their stomach are both popular starting positions. They allow the penetrating partner good control over depth and angle, and the receiving partner can relax more easily. Communication throughout is more important than any specific position.